Don't take it.

This is the age of trying , of taking risks and chartering into unknown paths and discovering by stumbling , falling and then rising but how long do we stumble and fall? 

Are we going to witness a catastrophe and then recall, that one advice which our close people gave us and we being we, choose to realise by our own mistakes.

I want to get down straightway to the point. I wish to be gentle , calm and articulate kindly but then sometimes it's better to not be that. All of us, today or tomorrow are going to be intimate and it is one of the most humane feeling to let oneself feel it and not impose boundaries on onself. Some have been there , some are and some will in upcoming times. But to delve so deep to resort to taking "pills"?

Ah! Gulp it down your throat with water and done! It's that easy . No hassles, no visit to hospitals and done!  

But why do I feel uneasy after listening this ? The same people who would hesitate before taking medicines if caught by any disease just take it.

But sweetheart, is it that simple? Does not simplest of medicines has side effects?Every medicines does has side-effects. Focusing on side effects would be a disgrace to the bigger picture of why should we take pills? In an emergency , yes. There is a reason it's there.

But there is another product with no side effects , protections , they are there. Sunny Leone was hired to promote condoms, shows it must be important enough. So many flavours are coming in market , shows how important it is to the capitalists. India is the land of Kamasutra, indeed we are very sexual people. Let's cherish it. Do it as much as you want with clear and explicit consent but then, pay respect. Pay respect to youself, to your body , to the friends who advise you to not take pills. Take few breaths before you resort to not taking protection. Love, is not about haste, it's not about excitement and diving deep into the moment. It's about taking deep breaths and then choosing to take the healthy decision. If you have chosen a sensible person, they would be calming you down , taking a pause and ask you to "stop". But if they not , then you remember that after the moment is gone, you will have to live with side-effects and no amount of romantic words can counter side-effects.Even medical shops people have stopped giving glares when asked condoms , it's as if asking for vicks and honitus for them. 

So, take a deep breath, pause for as long as you take to  calm down, choose any flavour of condom, any brand(okomoto is the thinnest) , tell your partner to encourage you to use protection and discourage for resorting to pill and then, go ahead! Have fun !